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When it comes to dating, age is just one among many factors to consider as you seek your match. We bring all of our prior life experience to any relationship we enter, so how much does it matter that one person's history is years or decades longer than the other's? Here, two experts weigh in on the benefits of dating an older man, as well as the potential drawbacks.


There are now cougar reality shows, dating sites, blogs, and books, and there have even been cougar beauty ants. He found that women 10 or more years older than their male mate were the happiest: the most satisfied with their relationships and committed to their partners. Top Stories.

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However, within every "men tend to" or "women tend to," there are individual differences; for example, a woman bumping up against 60 who's dating a guy who probably remembers preschool like it was yesterday — because it kinda pretty much was. Support local, independent media with a small monthly or one time contribution. More » More ». However, "cougar" didn't go wide tillwhen Demi Moore, at 40, started dating the years-her-junior Ashton Kutcher, then 25, whom she later married and divorced.

Pin It. Favorite Saving…. A much-younger boyfriend is also a status symbol of sorts, showily breaking the mold of being a sexually ignored aging woman.

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They profess their love to each other often, and I guess if it's working, it's fine, but I just don't get it. What's Up with Bend's Whitewater Waves. Staff Pick. Farthest Read: Reading the Source, from Kuwait.

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The Source Weekly. By. The term is said to trace back to the Vancouver Canucks hockey team in the '80s: the players' label for older, single, hetero female groupies who frequented their games and tried to score sex with them. Newsletter up Get Central Oregon daily news directly in your inbox.

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We depend on your support to help fund our coverage. Older women who date downward in age eight or more years or try to get called "cougars," sneering slang for sexually hungry older women hunting for younger man prey.

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Current Issue. A friend who's my age, 58, is dating a year-old guy. Even if you never quite get what the attraction is, you might just resolve to be happy that she's happy. Want to advertise with us?

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However, an analysis of census data by public policy researchers Zoe Lawton and Paul Callister in suggests the extent of this is "exaggerated by the media. She started seeing him when he was 18 and refers to him as her "husband.

An older man who's worthy of your time knows what he wants in a relationship.

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Social psychologist Justin Lehmiller surveyed around heterosexual women in relationships: women with male partners close to their age, women ificantly younger than their male partners, and women ificantly older than their male partners 22 years older on average. That said, it's probably best to avoid being around the two of them and instead see her alone, because, well, adulthood can be overrated — except when you want to have a conversation. He whines and pouts to get his way, feels a need to one-up everybody in conversation, and says and does weirdly inappropriate things like skipping through a graveyard and talking openly about his sexual prowess.

Of course, there are some constants in life, and one of them is how men, no matter how old and geezery, are most attracted to women in their early 20s. The fact that your friend's been with this guy for five years suggests this is more than a Boytoys R Us phase. More Special Guides ».

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But a younger man can be or turn into a preference — maybe because he's more fun and makes an older woman feel young again and probably because he's a sex machine that does not require pharmaceuticals or batteries. Ask her what she sees in him, and listen with an open mind. Submit an Event.

Dating an older man in your 20s and 30s is much different than dating one in your 40s, 50s, and 60s.

Tweets by sourceweekly. Be a part of it! Enjoying this story? August Digital Edition ». You might find your way to a little more compassion and understanding. View all our Newsletters. And maybe, just maybe, there's sometimes a connection that makes the guy's age and any related incompatibilities unimportant — sometimes because an older woman is secure and happy enough on her own that she doesn't require a man to be a human Costco to fill her every need.

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Thank you! Subscribe to this thread:. Get Social Facebook Twitter Instagram. Younger men are sometimes a workaround for older women experiencing a man famine: a shortage of men close to their age, who tend to date younger women.

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Think Hooters hiring pool and something grandpas with self-inflicted whiplash. Become a Source Insider. She's having fun; she's in love at nearly age 60; and sex for her is smokin' — and not because her partner's pacemaker catches fire midway through. Women, on the other hand, tend to go for slightly older men throughout their lives, until they're in their 70s, when they dip down a bit — though typically a handful of years, not four decades.

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