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  • How old am I:
  • 44
  • Where am I from:
  • Indian
  • Color of my eyes:
  • I’ve got cold blue eyes
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  • What is the color of my hair:
  • Short coarse auburn hair
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  • I'm slender
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In a city where restaurants close at 9 p. Your eyes might meet mid-asana in a yoga class at Prana, or they might be pouring themselves a cup of piping hot coffee right in front of you at a CreativeMornings breakfast lecture shameless plug. But during a global pandemic, which has left bars bare, canceled public events, and extinguished every would-be spark of a hopeful new encounter with the threat of a highly contagious virus, where are singles in Fort Wayne supposed to meet each other now? After coming out of a serious relationship mid-quarantine, I, Olivia Lehman, have flung myself into the murky waters of dating.

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These are the things I take for granted back in San Francisco, but that I now understand give me a certain sense of connection to the rest of the world around me simply because I am aware—in an almost covert way—of its existence. This is what a porch party looks like in Fort Wayne.

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Standing underneath the beautifully vast, expansive sky of Indiana—it all felt isolating. In San Francisco, it is easy and common to live single and happy with little pressure to be anything else, and there are still quite a few single men to date. There's a lot of greenery in Fort Wayne, but not many sidewalks. Is it bum luck? At some point, usually somewhere in or near your 30s, there is an expectation to have met someone with whom you finally "settle down. Truthfully, my dating life in San Francisco has been what can only be described as vehemently inauspicious, so whatever demographics might statistically be more strongly in my favor, they are clearly not helping when it comes to finding love.

It feels like a billion times more work than it is worth. You have such beautiful green parks here. Depending on what magical combination of luck and appeal with which one may be blessed, most humans will suffer the slings and arrows of this common social convention. Did I meet my future husband?

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Statistics are great and all, but when it comes to matters of the heart and soul, the answer is always far more complex. Source: Rapid Growth. Is it me? I was especially charmed by Laura, the retired ex-car-racer whose great grandfather built the house she lived in just down the road and who talked convertibles with me as she chain-smoked and regaled me with tales of racing cars in her stilettos. Would I be able to find the needle in the haystack? And generally, in our society, at least, most people view this dating as a means to an end.

Ever vigilant in conducting thorough research, I considered the idea of going on some just-for-fun Tinder dates during my time here in Fort Wayne, but I simply could not bring myself to resubmit myself to that grief. I realized after hanging out and meeting people at this porch party that the anxiety I had been feeling was coming from a deep sense of loss of connection.

Outside of downtown, sidewalks in Fort Wayne are scant. Here, everyone drives everywhere they need to go, which, by default, creates physical isolation from other people around you.

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I did my best to live as I normally live in San Francisco, and walking as transportation is a major part of my daily life. Recommended Content. I figured it had to be worth checking out.

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Fort Wayne is not a walking city. No, of course not—not even close. What do I really want, and what am I willing to risk to get it? My San Francisco friend here who I came to visit ed me, and much to both her and my surprise, we had a fantastic time!

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Simply being in the presence of a diverse group of people on a regular basis naturally lends itself to a sense of connection to those outside your own personal bubble, and to the rest of world around you. Jille Eikenberry Wednesday, September 11, What is it actually like to be single in Fort Wayne?

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Dating apps, whether here or in San Francisco, have never been my thing, to say the least. And ultimately: Would I be ripping myself from the last bastions of freedom as a happily single person in San Francisco and in the quest for true love, actually be dooming myself to a life of perpetual singlehood, now in total isolation with no community or place?

But those men also have a plethora of smart, independent, creative, attractive, down-to-earth women to choose from.

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Sponsored By. Newsletter up Newsletter up. Though it became clear once as we arrived that it truly was a neighborhood event—aka, for and by the people in the neighborhood—my friend and I were given a warm welcome nonetheless and immediately handed plates of food and cups of sangria, which, by the way, was hands down the best sangria I have ever had.

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But what actually constitutes a promising dating scene? But try as I might, my treks through Fort Wayne usually ended up with me walking on a grassy mound of dirt along the side of the road, most likely receiving odd looks from the people speeding by in their cars wondering what the heck some lone woman was doing traipsing along the dirt beside the freeway. In a city where the desire for monogamy can sometimes feel like an almost prudish notion, the potential of meeting someone actually looking to commit is tantalizing.

Apparently, Fort Wayne is one of the worst places in Indiana for singlescoming in 59 spots behind Indianapolis, which itself already sits low at position Where do Fort Wayne singles go to meet people? People can miss a lot when most commuting is done in a private car.

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If nothing else, the men in Fort Wayne most likely would be of the more traditional mindset, and even if boring, as my San Francisco mind is always sure to prejudgesurely it would be easier to find someone willing to commit there than in heretical San Francisco? I was touched by the friendliness expressed by everyone that evening, and I was truly impressed by the fierce individuality exhibited by so many and the warm inclusion that was openly given to us all.

Amidst a small mixed assembly of different ages, colors, and orientations, I held some fascinating conversations with a few brilliant characters.

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As elusive and mysterious as love can be, what does anyone really know about the secret to finding Your Person? It suddenly occurred to me that in a denser city such as San Francisco there are small things so easily taken for granted—things like newspaper headlines that I might catch as the people around me read theirs on the bus, or overhearing any of different conversations as I walk down the street. As it turns out, my guess was not too far from the truth.

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It was the lack of these ordinary, urban elements that had been causing my unease. Blog: Is Fort Wayne a good city for singles? Contact Subscribe. Tinder is a popular dating app, but I couldn't bring myself to do it.

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Source: High Ground. I walk almost everywhere in San Francisco. Yet, the truth still exists that in Fort Wayne the actual size of the pool from which to choose diminishes ificantly. However, these feelings of isolation were aptly squashed at this amazing porch party affair. This is a shame if you ask me. The question for me is: Where do I feel the least lonely? Really, the issue is not exactly how many available, interesting men there are in any one place, but rather where I fit in, either single or partnered.

And with so much choice, why would anyone focus on just one for any ificant amount of time? Source: Model D. Source: Soapbox. The people there were lovely. This intimate neighborhood-bonding event turned out to be my most favorite experience I have had here in Fort Wayne so far, as well as one of my most memorable experiences ever, in general. Could the answer to all my dating woes lie here, in Fort Wayne?

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How can I find my community? Is it them? If I thought it was hard meeting single people my age in San Francisco, Fort Wayne must be a dating desert. That strange sense of anxiety I mentioned a couple of posts ago? Soon we were mingling like locals.

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