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Odds are that the pulled-together young woman you encounter in the elevator, emerging from the gym, or riding the subway wearing sleek professional attire but no wedding ring is struggling to meet someone to spend her life with. The thirty-something woman of today is three times more likely to be single than her counterpart of the s. Indeed, both women and men—particularly those with high levels of education—are staying single far longer into their adult years than in eras. For both groups this delayed search for a spouse is a deliberate choice, but the effect of that delay on the two sexes is dramatically different. For men, the change in timing is merely an incidental matter with few repercussions.


How open are you to her true self? I still love my wife, but I am just not in love with her. Communication issues can lead to a person feeling emotionally unavailable, and many people who feel that way come alive in the presence of a shiny new potential partner.

There is no more spark. Dear Therapist is for informational purposes only, does not constitute medical advice, and is not a substitute for professional medical advice, diagnosis, or treatment.

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That, combined with the lack of intimacy in our relationship, makes me wonder if I would be happier with a divorce. After the business trip, we continued to talk and meet up for drinks.

The way she looks at me still gives me chills as I write this. The Atlantic Crossword.

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When I look down either road, I can see only fear and regret. And another baby on the way.

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So I am left wondering: Do I stay in a mediocre marriage for the kids, or do I leave for my own interest? I have a good life, good job, nice house, and all the things that come with that.

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In Subscribe. Moreover, if you two eventually have children together, you may find yourself five or 10 years from now wondering how you ended up in the same situation once again: content, but with decreased intimacy, increased tension, and a nagging sense that Mocha Almond Fudge is an even better flavor of ice cream than Rocky Road. With a daughter.

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I felt I could be my genuine self with her, which is a feeling that I have not had in a long time. The feelings got stronger and I shared information with her that I had never told anyone. I feel much better when I am actually heard, but the resulting fights are frustrating because they are fruitless. This is especially important because, as you tell it, your earlier decision to get back together with your now-wife was influenced, at least in part, by the opinions of family and friends.

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Popular Latest. Experiencing such an intense mutual connection feels wonderful, and your task now is to understand the nature of it better. Great, right? Only then will you be able to make a decision not out of guilt or confusion or quiet desperation, but out of a grounded place of knowing.

After multiple rounds of drinks, barhopping, and great conversation, I realized we had an intense connection. I compare my marriage to vanilla ice cream.

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How much empathy do you have for her experience of the marriage and what her wants and needs are? If you were to leave now, you would be the single father of a young child and a newborn, with a girlfriend who may not have an interest in raising these children with you—changing diapers, waking up several times a night, spending time at baby birthday parties and the pediatrician and the park.

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Months ago, on a business trip, a female co-worker and I attempted to meet up with others for drinks, but when everyone else bailed, we decided to still go out. Nobody—not your wife, not a new partner, not your daughter—can fill that hole for you, even if it seems like your co-worker is doing so in the moment. I was content in my marriage. Always seek the advice of your physician, mental-health professional, or other qualified health provider with any questions you may have regarding a medical condition.

Yes, there were times when I was happy, but not truly happy. Another thing for you to consider as you go through this process is that no one else can tell you what to do. I have never been truly happy in my marriage.

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Eventually, my wife found out about this, but she still wants to work on our marriage. Any advice? My co-worker is single with no kids. You say the spark is no longer in your marriage and on a positive note, you remember the sparkbut many parents entrenched in the day-to-day with infants or toddlers feel this way, and seek out, either in fantasy or reality, a welcome escape from the sometimes mundane, roommate-like existence that couples can fall into during this phase of life.

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They glance at you, maybe even smile for a second, then carry on with their conversation.


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More recently, a plethora of market-minded dating books are coaching singles on how to seal a romantic deal, and dating apps, which have rapidly become the mode du jour for single people to meet each other, make sex and romance even more like shopping.