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With just days to go Irina was threatening to call off their wedding unless the money was released and they had a home to move into. James ended the night in hospital. That friend was Irina. Irina was "jumping up and down," James said, "she was happy now". He quit his job and sold his house, and with Irina's encouragement they began looking for a place to live together in Odessa.

Instead of putting the money in Irina's personalJames was told he should put the money in the company of her friend Kristina, the wedding planner. Eight months before the wedding reception, the pair held an engagement party at the same venue, Villa Otrada. For several months he shuttled back and forth, combining his voluntary work in Odessa with his full-time job in the UK. Then that winter, a heavy snowfall brought their work in Odessa to a halt. Everything is on brand.

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He was excited to see his fiancee, Irina, waiting for him outside the restaurant on Ukraine's Black Sea coast. Moments later, James and Irina recited their wedding vows under an arch of flowers. The BBC has verified his of what happened using bank documents, official records, text messages, and interviews with many of those directly involved. The day after marrying Kristina, James's taxi pulled up at his wedding reception to Irina at the Villa Otrada.

Irina spoke minimal English and James no Russian or Ukrainian. Over the next six months, the new couple saw each other whenever James came to Odessa. His plan was to do everything apart from the legalities - go ahead with the wedding before sorting out a quickie divorce to Kristina and a new legal marriage to Irina. With the benefit of hindsight, James now knows that everything about the wedding reception was a scam.

There was an age difference of 20 years but James says they got on "like a house on fire". This is a story about how a British man lost most of his life savings, as well as his dignity. It's the entertainment heart of the city, full of restaurants and bars.

James didn't know it at that point, but his fiancee Irina already had a husband. Records show Kristina divorced Denys three weeks before she ed the paper to marry James.

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But what should have been the perfect moment was in fact nothing of the sort. But James says he didn't come to Odessa looking for love.

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He's moving stiffly, she's smiling and waves at the camera. James had popped the question after some firm prodding from both Julia and Irina. Then 32 years old, she was from Donetsk, one of the cities in eastern Ukraine that are now occupied by Russian-backed fighters.

Walk down it in the evening and you'll almost certainly see Western men dining out with much younger Ukrainian women, a bag of expensive deer gifts sitting on the chair beside them. The evening of the wedding reception, with a first-ever night of intimacy between James and Irina looming, drastic measures were taken. I love you," one message she sent James says.

They flirted through the messaging app Viber, which has a translation function. It's multi-faceted and ranges from pay-per-mail services to face-to-face "romance tours", where Western men pay thousands of dollars to meet a series of prospective young Ukrainian "wives". And thanks so much for that… I believe in YOU. Just you can give me this happiness. It's November11 months after their first date. There wasn't much to do, so Julia suggested that James might like to go on a date with one of her friends.

Ukraine is one of Europe's most corrupt countries and has had several high-profile banking scandals. But there was a chemistry between us," says James. The hope was that it would pave the way for her to move with him to the UK. But after a few chats with embassy officials, it was clear that the bureaucratic obstacles to a move were huge.

The year-old British charity worker had been looking forward to this moment for months.

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When a British charity worker got engaged to a young Ukrainian woman, he thought he was building a new life for them both in Odessa - he was wrong. There were expensive meals and evenings at the Opera House.

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Twenty years younger than him, she looked glamorous, her blonde hair fresh from the hairdresser. He says he'd fallen in love but had no illusions about the strength of Irina's feelings. A video shows James and Irina dancing slowly on the dancefloor. Irina announced to James that the bank would only release the money if he was legally married to Kristina.

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My friends in the UK thought it was a big step but they were happy for me that I had a future. When the money arrived in Ukraine things took a surreal turn. So with me can be only my mom. There's a thriving "dating" industry here. Translator Julia was always there and Irina told him she didn't believe in sex before marriage. It soon became clear that her troubled past went much deeper than just fleeing war.

The couple went out for a few evenings in a row, enjoying Odessa's nightlife. The prices were inflated, the 60 guests most probably paid to be there, even Irina's "mother" turned out to be Julia the translator's mum. As it turns out, Mr Papinyan's methods bear little relation to that of his fictional hero on Baker Street. Transferring money from the UK to Ukraine is never straightforward.

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James's car pulled up at the Villa Otrada. James had fun with Irina, but they were never alone. James began paying for Irina to have English lessons. So on Friday 10 Julywith the encouragement of his fiancee Irina, James married the wedding planner Kristina Stakhova. Kristina the wedding planner also had a husband, called Denys, but he was apparently more willing to play along.

Not far away were what James thought were Irina's parents and 60 invited guests, also dressed to the nines. Such is his embarrassment that he's told no-one in the UK his story, not even his family. Working abroad was new to James, but he threw himself into it with the help of a translator called Julia. A charity worker living in the UK, he was asked by a friend in to help set up a new project supporting children fleeing the conflict zone in Ukraine's east. By midnight James was lying alone in hospital, sick from a suspected spiked drink. The former policeman is well-dressed, with dyed black hair.

It would be a formality, completed in just 10 minutes in a registry office and unpicked at a later date, she said.

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Tatyana is an official translator who tried to help James pick up the pieces after the scam. But intimacy, even kissing, was off-limits. Despite some misgivings, James wired the money to Kristina. Irina refused to go with him and the next day accused him of getting drunk and humiliating her in front of her family. It was Julythe start of a hot summer in Odessa, and tables had been laid out on Villa Otrada's terrace overlooking the sea. Money-laundering controls mean there are limits on the size of the transfer, and big s quickly attract attention. James was now in an impossible situation.

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Perversely when they were apart, communication was easier. A showing the silhouette of a man in a hat with a pipe sticks out above the pavement of Lanzheronivska Street in central Odessa. He was almost certainly the only one attending who thought it was real. James believes he was drugged by the person who he thought was Irina's mother. James got out of the car and the waiting crowd turned to clap. Follow the yellow-and-black arrow through the archway and across a courtyard, and you reach the office of Robert Papinyan, private investigator.

There's a Sherlock Holmes notepad, Sherlock Holmes business cards and his ringtone is the theme tune of the Soviet TV version of Sherlock Holmes which many in the former Soviet world argue is the best. The connection was a sort of shared interest. And how Ukraine's justice system laughed in his face. Once the scam marriage was over, she married Denys again. He was married, but it wasn't to the woman he loved.

For the next few weeks Irina kept her distance, saying she herself had medical problems but that James couldn't visit her in hospital. It was the couple's wedding planner. Eventually the madness stopped. Europe's second-largest country had just undergone a revolution, and Russia had responded by supporting a rebel uprising. So he took the plunge, deciding to move to Ukraine and start a new life with Irina. With good reason.

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