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A middle-aged man dating a much younger woman has long been thought of in American culture as a classic of midlife crisis. In some circles, dating a younger woman is a status symbol. Same-sex couples sometimes feature a ificant age gap as well. Navigating the social ramifications of your relationship while struggling with generation gaps can be tough, but a ificant age difference can give you the chance to consider new perspectives and appreciate the offerings of a different generation. Sometimes a ificant age gap makes a relationship impossible.


You mention some potential pitfalls. Having said all that, I wish you all the romantic fun in the world, with some well-earned enjoyment—as well as good wishes for the new year. By continuing to use this site you consent to our cookies. Sixty-three leaves a lot of life to be experienced—having turned 50, I hold fast to that statement.

Is it wrong for me to want to date younger men?

Nothing is less fun than rigidity. You go, girl! The most common reason for this, which may or may not apply to you personally, is the theme of youthfulness or vitality.

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There is a balance between caution and openness, which everyone finds for themselves. I just retired at age 63 after four decades in the loan industry. I can only imagine by the tenor of your note that you are flattered by the attention, and why not?

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We may not have a lot in common and there may be gaps in maturity, wisdomand life experience. Notice to users GoodTherapy is not intended to be a substitute for professional advice, diagnosis, medical treatment, or therapy. Invalid Address. After my husband died inI wrapped myself up in my work and put romance and sex on a very dusty shelf.

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First of all, you seem comfortable with it. Leave a Comment By commenting you acknowledge acceptance of GoodTherapy. Also, it is hard to generalize about differences in regard to generations, maturity, and so forth, since we are all so unique. Pleasantly so. Leave this field empty. To each her or his own.

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I ed up for my first dating website yesterday and lo and behold I already have a whopping 18 messages! But I also feel sure about something else: At this stage of my life, I find myself much more attracted to younger men than older men or even men my own age. Thanks again for your question!

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Could be fun. For many men, a loss of virility or stamina or peak physicality and impending retirement can create massive insecurity.

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Search Our Blog. Please fill out all required fields to submit your message. By commenting you acknowledge acceptance of GoodTherapy. I know there may be potential complications with dating outside my generation. Love is not only blind, it often has a sense of irony.

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Maturity here is not to be confused with being stoic or emotionally reserved. It can be intoxicating to meet a special someone and feel like you want to give all of yourself right away, but trust is precious indeed and needs to be earned little by little.

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Always seek the advice of your physician or qualified mental health provider with any questions you may have regarding any mental health symptom or medical condition. Thus endeth my advice. Why not have a little fun now that you have time on your hands? Now that I am retired, I am thinking about filling my time with someone or maybe multiple someones!

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There are always pitfalls in any situation. I feel ready this time. Why in the world would it be wrong? Older men often seek younger women because of a fear of their own mortality, which aging makes impossible to ignore and which many folks experience as a traumatic loss. If you would like support in navigating this journey into unfamiliar territory, therapists are here for you.

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I was surprised that most of them are from younger men—one is a college sophomore! Never disregard professional psychological or medical advice nor delay in seeking professional advice or treatment because of something you have read on GoodTherapy. Maybe coffee or a drink in a safe, public venue. Please confirm that you are human. Darren Haber.

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I might shoot some funny looks back, though. You experienced the loss of your husband belated condolences and have worked hard in your career.

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Most of us try to be on our best behavior in the beginning and let the rough edges slowly emerge. Is it so wrong for me to want to date younger men? We may be patient and sage in the office, but frantic or angry behind the wheel, and so on. No not wrong! When I say younger, I mean 20 or 30 years younger.

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Get Listed. Where is it written only men may seek out younger companions? Cara February 5th, at AM No not wrong! Find a Therapist Advanced Search. I am blushing but also smiling and laughing, if I am being honest.

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